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  • Ann Arbor, Michigan, USA


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Ann Arbor
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Political Views
  • Far Left
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Relationship Status
In an polyamorous relationship
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In the last month


These words describe me best...

Respectful  Ethical  Always learning

That's me...

I value honest, direct communication & consent culture, and working in mutual aid while fighting the many forms of exploitation & oppression.

(The "Children" section above is not clear, so: I don't want biological children, but I do want to foster and/or adopt children within an extensive chosen family.)

I'm looking for...

those who want to create something better with me, in any form.
I am working toward building community around environmentalism & intersectional social justice, including a physical intentional community that supports veganism & other ethical choices.

I'm enthusiastic about connecting with others in meaningful ways - and glad to provide any support I can - so please don't be hesitant to contact me!


What makes you laugh?

on-point social commentary, plain silliness

What makes you cry?

fear for the state of the world, trauma flashbacks

What are you afraid of?

bigotry, apathy, and their far-reaching effects

What drives you mad?

bigotry, apathy, and their far-reaching effects

What are your negative and positive features?

Negative: previously, very naive; currently, perhaps overly cautious
Positive: deep desire (and actions) to change the world for the better


How do you spend your free time?

earth stewardship, art, activism, mutual support

You never leave the house without...

having checked that no utilities have been left on!

What kind of music do you listen to?

music with a message, any genre

What's your favorite movie, series, book?

Nonfiction books:
- The Beauty Myth, by Naomi Wolf
- Animal Equality: Language and Liberation, by Joan Dunayer
- Slow Death by Rubber Duck: How the Toxic Chemistry of Everyday Life Affects Our Health, by Rick Smith & Bruce Lourie
Fiction books:
- All Over Creation, by Ruth Ozeki
- Flight Behavior, by Barbara Kingsolver
- The Color Purple, by Alice Walker
- Stone Butch Blues, by Leslie Feinberg
- Mama Day, by Gloria Naylor


Love is...

the opposite of abuse. Love is wanting to make the world a better place for one's beloved to exist in.

How will you recognize your dream partner?

They will want to discuss our ethical practices and beliefs, and we will do so with an open mind.

Your dream partner shouldn't be...?

afraid to talk to me - or at least shouldn't be unwilling to overcome that fear. I very much want to connect with those who share my values, and try to be approachable.

What does your dream relationship look like?

Shared dreams, ethics, desire to learn & grow, willingness to accept feedback & communicate the hard things

How important is erotic and sex to you?

I can be very sexual with the right people, but I welcome asexual/demisexual/ace-spectrum folks.


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