- Looking for...
- Let's see (Men)
- Date (Men)
- Relationship (Men)
- Age Spectrum (Romantic)
- 40 - 55
- New Zealand
- In Company / At Parties
- Not Religious
- Relationship Status
- No, and I don't want any
- Willing to relocate
- Body Type
- A few extra pounds
- Clothing Style
- Hair Color
- Eye Color
- Member since
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- In the last month
I'm not sexy, cool, or widely accepted. Someone will always be prettier, smarter, younger or more fashionable. But no-one will ever be me and I'm perfectly comfortable with who I am. I'm an independent thinker, not afraid to flout social conventions, and a social introvert (MBTI: ISTJ).
If you're looking for a tiny, flat-chested stick insect, I'm not one. I have curves and boobs and I'm not afraid to use them.
I like football and porno and books about war..... no wait, that's a song. Oh well, if the shoe fits.
I do love sports. Rugby is not just a game, it's my religion, but I'll watch most other sports with the exception of motorsport. I'm in my happy place when at a rugby game, a rock concert, or simply being at home.
My job titles include Donkey & Lamb Whisperer, and Chief Leaf Raker. I work full time at my real job, and part time in my garden. I pay my own bills. Clearly I'm adulting nicely.
I wear socks that match. I swear a lot and I'm not very PC, especially in my own head. My sense of humour is sarcastic and sometimes quite black.
I was a spy in another life. Or maybe this one. You decide. I could tell you but then I'd have to....well, you know the rest.
Rock music is life. I love dogs, would have another one but the cats who own me said no, as we all took it too hard when the last one passed away.
I'm looking for...
What I'm looking for is someone who can capture my attention and make me smile or even laugh out loud right from the first message.
Ideally you'd be travel-minded (road trips and plane trips).
Most definitely you'll need to be a rugby fan. That should probably be in the non-negotiable list, since if you won't watch it with me, we'd probably never see each other. Rugby season is long.
Close to my age and close to my area (preferring country to city living would be a bonus since I'm a rural girl. Bring your own gumboots).
Your tattoos are ok with me, if mine are with you?